How to Create the Relationship of Your Dreams
People always ask how they can create the person of their dreams in their life. The answer is simple: become that person. It's not about finding someone who fits your ideal mold, but rather becoming the best version of yourself.
The Importance of Being Your Best Self
When it comes to relationships, you shouldn't have to work at it. If you find yourself constantly working on the relationship, something is not right. The key is to bring your best self to the table and celebrate life together. This creates constructive interference, growth, and positive energy.
However, if you feel like you're not being invited to contribute your opinion or if you're not being seen or heard in the relationship, it may be better to step back. A healthy conversation requires both parties to be open and willing to listen.
Love vs. Happiness
Many people claim they want a loving relationship, but what they truly desire is happiness. Love and happiness are interconnected, but they are not the same thing. Love is a deep connection and understanding, while happiness is a state of joy and contentment.
To create love in your life, you need to understand the power of your thoughts and feelings. Your thoughts and feelings emit an electromagnetic signature that influences every aspect of your life. If you're not in a place of love, if you're living in anger, hostility, judgment, or fear, you won't have a magnetic field to draw a loving relationship toward you.
It's important to take responsibility for your emotions and not blame others or external circumstances. When you blame someone or something for how you feel, you give away your power and become a victim. Instead, focus on practicing love, opening your heart, and diminishing your emotional reactions to negative situations.
The Impact of Stress Hormones
Most people unconsciously respond to the conditions in their environment and experience emotions that are derived from stress hormones. These emotions cause us to feel separate from our dreams and hinder our ability to see opportunities.
Living in a constant state of stress weakens the body and makes you more vulnerable to the conditions in your environment. It's important to practice trading survival emotions for elevated emotions. This means shifting from fear, anger, and anxiety to love, joy, and gratitude.
Opening your heart and practicing love may seem challenging, especially if you've been hurt in the past. However, it's necessary to break free from the emotional conditioning that keeps you stuck in the past. By consciously choosing elevated emotions, you can rewire your body and create a new emotional baseline.
The Subconscious Program
Emotional conditioning becomes a subconscious program that influences how we perceive and react to the world. If you've been conditioned into resentment, unhappiness, or fear, it's time to step out of your comfort zone and embrace the unknown.
Many people claim they can't feel joy or love because they've conditioned their bodies emotionally into the past. They've become so accustomed to certain negative emotions that they don't know how to feel anything else. It's important to break free from this conditioning and practice feeling love and joy in the present moment.
Remember, the body doesn't know the difference between a real experience and the emotion you fabricate through thought alone. By consciously choosing positive emotions, you can condition your body for love and happiness.
Manifesting Love
Creating the relationship of your dreams requires more than just intellectual or theoretical desires. You need to feel the emotions of your future manifestation before it becomes a reality. Waiting for the outer environment to change is a cause and effect mentality, which keeps your relationship at arm's length.
Instead, focus on reversing that mentality and practicing feeling love in the present moment. Don't anticipate the next moment or try to predict the future. Be fully present and immersed in the feeling of love. By doing this, you create a magnetic field that draws love and happiness to you.
Teach your body emotionally what the future will feel like before it's made manifest. The more you practice feeling love and joy, the more you condition your body and attract loving relationships into your life.
Creating the relationship of your dreams starts with becoming the best version of yourself and practicing love in every moment. By taking responsibility for your emotions, shifting from survival to elevated emotions, and consciously manifesting love, you can create a fulfilling and loving relationship.
