Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams
In the quest for the perfect relationship, many people wonder how they can create the person of their dreams. According to renowned relationship expert, it all starts with taking out a piece of paper and writing down everything you want in that person. But it doesn't stop there. The key is to become the person you want to attract.
Love is a concept that can mean different things to different people. Some see it as a need, others as a measure of control or dominance. But these different experiences of love often fall short of the true meaning of love.
In order to create the relationship you desire, it's important to understand a few key principles. First and foremost, a relationship should never feel like work. If you find yourself constantly working on the relationship, something is not right. A healthy relationship should be a celebration of life, where both individuals bring their best selves to the table.
It's also important to reflect on yourself and ask if there's something you may be missing. If you're not invited to contribute your opinion or be a part of the conversation, it may be time to reevaluate the relationship. True love is not just about a loving relationship, but about finding happiness within yourself.
In order to attract love into your life, it's important to understand the power of your thoughts and emotions. Thoughts are like electrical charges in the quantum field, while emotions are like magnetic charges. The way you think and feel creates an electromagnetic signature that influences every aspect of your life.
If you're living in a state of anger, hostility, judgment, or fear, and you're not practicing love and acceptance towards yourself and others, you won't have the magnetic field necessary to draw love into your life. Blaming external circumstances or other people for your emotional state only gives them power over you.
Most people unconsciously respond to the conditions in their environment, experiencing emotions derived from the hormones of stress. These emotions create a sense of separation from our dreams and hinder our ability to see the opportunities for love that exist around us.
When we experience a highly charged event in our lives, our brain takes a snapshot and stores it as a memory. Every time we think about that event, we produce the same chemistry in our brain and body as if the event were occurring in the present moment. This conditioning of the body into past emotions can become a subconscious program that affects our overall well-being.
So how can we bring love into our lives? It starts with practicing elevated emotions and opening our hearts. If we've been conditioned to feel guilt, anger, or fear, we need to consciously shift our emotional state to one of joy and love. This may seem challenging at first, but with practice, it becomes easier.
Instead of waiting for the outer environment to change, we need to reverse our perspective and start feeling the emotions of love and joy before they are manifested in our lives. This means being fully present in the moment and not anticipating the future or dwelling on the past.
Creating the relationship of your dreams is not about finding someone who represents all the things you no longer want. Instead, it's about understanding what love feels like and embodying that feeling. By teaching our body emotionally what the future will feel like, we can create the magnetic field necessary to attract love into our lives.
Remember, love is not just about the perfect relationship, but about finding happiness and fulfillment within yourself. Take the time to reflect on your thoughts and emotions, and practice opening your heart to the possibilities of love. Only then can you truly create the relationship of your dreams.
